Etiquette

Use my website or my email to properly introduce yourself and supply all screening information. I really appreciate those who reach out with intention and a positive demeanor; this puts me at ease and allows me to anticipate you.

I practice discretion with an encrypted email, I will not contact you randomly nor will I engage if we happen to see each other in a public setting. I should hope this can go both ways.

I require a deposit/booking fee from all clients before meeting. Deposits are mandatory to secure our time. Please look at the ‘details’ section in the Considerations page for more info.

I am happy to provide a reference if you need one, one per date for up to 6 months after we’ve last seen each other. You must confirm with me in advance before listing my name.

Please confirm your appointment only on the day and time we discussed. I really admire clear communication but please keep it professional and respectful before we meet

If you must cancel or reschedule our date I require a 24 hour notice so we can use your deposit towards another date. If you cancel less than 24 hours you agree to forfeit your deposit and provide 50% compensation.

Try your best to not arrive more than 5 minutes early just so I can prepare. If you’re late or have gotten lost just reach out and let me know. I allow a 10 minute grace period but I might not be able to give you the full appointment if it is any later than that.

Please place the unopened envelope in clear view before starting. If the meeting is public you’re welcome to place it inside a book or a card

I run a safe show in all regards (no negotiations or exceptions). All I ask is that you don’t do anything that doesn’t give me loads of joy…see what I did there?

Respect my time and boundaries as I will yours. My time is just as valuable as yours so if you would like to extend our date please make sure it is planned and that details are taken care of beforehand.

I love cleanliness. Please arrive well-groomed for our date freshly showered with clean breath and trimmed nails. You are also encouraged to use accommodated facilities upon arrival

Please do not arrive under the influence of any drugs or alcohol as I will have to end our date immediately.

If you show up sick, our date ends immediately and you will lose the ability to see me.